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El Camino Pediatrics Newsletter
June 2006

A Good-Bye Letter from Dr. Nathanson

Dear Families,

For decades, I have felt like a member of your own extended family. We all worked together to keep “our” children healthy and safe, immunized, potty trained, and sleeping through the night!

As I take my leave, I know I’ll miss all of you deeply. Babies, children, young people and grown-ups, you have all taught me so much. Many of you have had to confront challenges that are truly daunting, and the grace and steadfastness you have shown move me deeply. Others of you show that grace by participating in life to the full, leading wonderfully rich and active lives, and teaching your children how to do the same.

From you I have learned that loving discipline really works, that older children thrive when given responsibility both for themselves and for younger ones, and that even toddlers can be compassionate. I have learned how effective parents (and grandparents) can be when they take on bureaucracies, and even the culture itself, on behalf of the child who needs help.

I have seen you helping each other, keeping your tempers when everything is frustrating, laughing wholeheartedly when one of Our Kids does something funny, and giving a standing ovation when one of them steps up to the microphone and delivers an unforgettable performance.

When my husband, Chuck, was so ill, you sent me cards that often were signed or drawn by your children; you also sent me loving thoughts and prayers. After he died, three years ago, and I returned to work drained and grieving, your kindness and patience sustained me.

Yes indeed, I will miss you all. You may all get older, but I am the living museum of your youth, your young families, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.

Thank you for such a great privilege.

Your Friend and Pediatrician,

Laura Nathanson, MD